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Easter Monday

The Monday after Easter used to be holiday adjacent like the Friday after Thanksgiving. Today is just another Monday in the time of pandemic.

As of April 13th, there have been 22,151 deaths in the United States. (source: Wikipedia).

Here’s some good news: Director Robert Townsend has a new documentary about the making of the classic movie, The Five Heartbeats. It will start streaming on April 14. I will be watching.

I am drinking lots of water today. My temp is normal. I feel physically good, taking it one day at a time.

Journal Track 2

Tuesday’s are typically good. There are Taco  Tuesdays of course. For me, Tuesday’s are comedy. I ran a weekly comedy show on Tuesdays for nearly four years. This Tuesday is fun because we have finally ended the month of MARCH. March 2020 has been the longest month ever.  We have a whole ass global pandemic happening. Today is my nephew’s birthday. He is four.  Today is also the day that Nipsey  and Selena died.  Everything is fucked up right now, but I am drinking beer and chatting with service industry friends on IG Live. Connection is key to community. We need everyone to combat the pandemic. Laughing is part of the cure.

Last night I started watching ‘High Fidelity” on Hulu.  I read both  the Nick Hornby book and seen the movie starring John Cusack. I love Zoe Kravitz as the lead. I had a lightbulb moment while watching. I realized that in all my years of dating and fucking that no one has ever proposed marriage to me.  I  will probably die alone.

Why Is Everything Chrome? CoronaVirus Journal

It’s Monday.  I made popovers but they didn’t pop.  I FaceTimed with my sister Jamilah, and I saw Bo.   We talked about collagen supplements and gray hairs on our temples.   I tried to claim my UI benefit, but it’s not available online yet. At least I got the letter in the mail. What else?  I play Word Search all the time.  I watch Tik Tok videos.  I hope that someone I know doesn’t die of #CoronaVirus.

Back From A Hiatus

Hello! It’s been nearly a year since I have written a post. I could say that I have been busy, but I think that long form writing is harder for me to do.  I am going to post a lot for the month of March. I have a new job working in the service industry, and I love it! I have made new friends. I am now running a new monthly standup comedy show here in Savannah. I am co-hosting the show with Bill Cooper who is a comedian and actor.  The next show is Thursday, March 26th at Starland Yard.  Starland Yard is a food truck park in the neighborhood.

I try to photos of my breakfast daily.

I am obsessed with watching TikTok videos and playing Word Relax on my phone.  Other than that I watch Netflix and listen to podcasts. I have been growing my Facebook Page, Gnatty Savannah and its accompanying Instagram page. I am focusing on featuring local Savannah businesses including restaurants, bars, and shops.  I also post events.

Southern Boomerangs Need To Fight Coastal Flooding

Nichelle Stephens

One of my favorite short stories is Flannery O’ Connor’s “Everything That Rises Must Converge.” It is the story of two generations facing a changing South. I was born in Alabama and grew up in suburban Atlanta. After living in Ohio and New York for about 15 years before moving to Savannah, I now call myself a Southern Boomerang. I’m still waiting for that term to catch on!

Boomerangs like me tend to bounce back when faced with changing situations or unexpected events. But to tackle Coastal Georgia’s most pressing environmental issues in the short and long term — from increased flooding during high tides, to surging sea-levels, to the increase in severe weather events such as Hurricanes Irma and Matthew — we’re going to need an entire community of boomerangs. We’re going to need resilience, which refers to the collective capacity for communities to recover quickly from natural disasters.

One community organization that is helping to make Savannah resilient is OpenSavannah. It blends community organizing, technology, and service design to help make local government work better in the digital age. As a member of OpenSavannah since it started in 2017, I and other volunteers have worked on a number of civic tech projects to help make Savannah become more resilient in the face of rising sea levels.

But to make our efforts at creating a more resilient Savannah actually matter on the scale they need to be effective, we need to ramp up our efforts beyond the current ad hoc volunteer level. Last week, we got just the boost we needed. Three OpenSavannah members — myself, Rob Lingle and Carl V. Lewis — were honored to be selected as fellows in one of just seven teams from across Code for America’s 78-city national network to participate in the 2019 Code for America Community Fellowship program.

As community fellows, we now transition into paid full-time and part-time roles focused solely on tackling a specific issue unique to our city. For us, the decision to select coastal resilience and emergency response was obvious. Our fellowship project joins the existing Smart Sea Level Sensors consortium from Georgia Tech, city of Savannah, Chatham County, and Chatham Emergency Management Agency. We plan to augment the project by getting more residents involved in the process, especially residents from underserved communities at the greatest risk to rising sea-levels.

Last week at our on-boarding in San Francisco, the Savannah team attended training on human-centered design — in other words, how to design products with the end user in mind by conducting user research with actual residents and putting those needs at the center of the process.

The first step in our project is to get out and talk to residents. In this case, we will be working alongside neighborhood association presidents in West Savannah where the effects of sea-level-rise will be most immediate and damaging — along with local nonprofit The Harambee House/Citizens for Environmental Justice and the city of Savannah’s Office of Sustainability — to hold a series of workshops to gather local knowledge about flooding events from the people who know it best: Those who live there.

By layering that ground-truth data from residents on top of the existing data collected from the sea-level sensors, we hope to get a holistic view of where localized flooding happens most, what might be done to mitigate its effects, and also provide valuable local insight to first responders to help prioritize relief and response efforts in the aftermath of a storm surge event.

Overall, our goal for this six-month fellowship is to combine quantitative data from sea-level-sensors with ground-truth data collected from Savannahians living in impacted communities to build tools and techniques that help create a more resilient, responsive, and equitable coastal Georgia. We want to inform the most vulnerable citizens about rising sea levels, listen to their stories, and empower them with knowledge and resources.

Women Writing Cool Stuff

I just sent out my first Tinyletter of 2018.  It features women who are writing cool things.

Happy New Year!
I hope you had a relaxing holiday season. 2018 is going to be good. Now it’s time to get to work.
To help you ease back, I highly suggest listening to Hit Parade podcast episode featuring
Donna Summer. https://megaphone.link/PPY3106618968​


FRIENDS AND FAM
Anya Kamanetz has a book that it is a must-have for parents, The Art of Screen Time. The book guide parents on how to balance screen time with their kids. It comes out later this month, but you can pre-order it today. http://amzn.to/2Cv77vL


Imani Perry has written a scholarly book about the Black National Anthem, May We Forever Stand: A History of the Black National Anthem. http://amzn.to/2CLBiwl​ The book comes out in February but you can pre-order it today.


Roni Dean-Burren wrote about the Black Church on the website Black Youth Project, Church makes me sick: How Black Christians are Stalling Black Liberation
http://blackyouthproject.com/church-makes-me-sick-how-black-christians-are-stalling-black-liberation/


Graeme Seabrook wrote the essay on Medium, The Currency Question: Why Is it So Hard For Y’all To Give Black Women Money? http://medium.com/@graeme_59025/the-currency-question-141a3009e033


WHAT AM I UP TO
Reviewing the new tax bill, filing 1099s by the end of January for clients, and hosting a Facebook Live on Thursday, January 4th at 8PM about income taxes.

ColIn’s PROtest

A few weeks ago, I saw Dr. Carol Anderson speak at the Decatur Book Festival. Dr. Anderson is a professor at Emory University. She talked about American history and politics and her book, ‘White Rage: The Unspoken Truth Of Our Racial Divide”.

She mentioned how “white rage” tends to happen more not when Black people are doing poorly but when Black people don’t know their place. As Black Americans become more successful, the more systematic and institutional racism is installed to keep the status quo. She talked about housing, public education and voter registration. She even mentioned Colin Kaepernick’s protest. I actually thought the Kaepernick thing would actually blow over by now, but I think he accidentally started a movement. People don’t like his protest. They claim it’s not patriotic. Even people who have liberal leanings have issue with his nonviolent and silent protest. He is not holding up signs. He is not singing. He is not wearing a hoodie. He kneels.

I was surprised that even Tanner Colby had an issue with his protest. Tanner Colby is an author of the book, Some of My Best Friends Are Black’ and one of the host of the podcast,’ Our National Conversation About Conversations About Race’. On the podcast, he expressed frustration and questioned the effectiveness of Kaepernick and what was his end goal. Without saying it, he inferred a kind of respectability politics to Kaepernick. I am glad that Anna Holmes (former editor of Jezebel.com) was on the podcast to offer a cogent rebuttal.

There is no protest that happens where everyone is comfortable. Maybe Kaepernick’s protest is the continuation of a conversation that started with Black Lives Matter. Maybe Colin is sick and tired of being sick and tired. I don’t know. Tanner Colby doesn’t know but yet he speculates. I think it is so curious that white people love to create an inner monologue of black people without even having a conversation with them. [I’m talking to you, Lena Dunham.]

Colin’s protest is slowing going viral. His number 7 jersey is selling like hotcakes. Soccer players like Megan Rapinoe are kneeling as well as high school football players around the country. These people are aiming high in the athleticism and professional lives. White rage hates an uppity negro or an ambitious woman. When they aim, they go low. They accuse them of being ungrateful and unpatriotic. They don’t like it when people of color act free. They try to put people in the place. The place is past. The place is dust. Get over it.

No One Wears Khaki Pants

Pink Pants
I was asked if I were a hipster. That made me laugh. Maybe I am. Maybe I just know people who are or know people who make things that appeal to hipsters. Hipsters are the same as millennials. Some millennials are decidedly basic. They are normcore-wearing people who are averse to student loan debt and wearing pants. Seriously, no one wears pants anymore. It is either skinny jeans, leggings or shorts. I worry about the sales of khaki pants. I don’t wear pants often either, but I have some.

Anyway, there are way too many people living on this earth. There are so many generations alive right now and because of technology and internet-sharing, you can have access to all of their thoughts and dreams. This is an excellent time to be a sociologist who can use big data to provide insights into what is the culture now and what will happen in the future.

I am more interested in learning what we can do to change anti-social behavior online and offline. Sometimes it seems that the world is so mean. It makes me sad. However, it could be that I see it more with social media and the 24-hour news cycle.

What I do know is this, “intent does not absolve you from impact”. If you have offended someone with your words and actions, then recognize that even if your intentions were good, it doesn’t matter if someone was offended. We can’t please everyone, but we can be contrite if we fail.

Gatekeepers

Gatekeepers are everywhere. They exists in the ivy league schools, fraternities and sororities, the toniest suburbs and the Upper East Side co-op boards.
Everything is not for everyone. Not everyone will fit in. However, gatekeepers have made it extremely difficult for social mobility and innovation.

Every community has a culture. Gatekeepers maintain the status quo culture by selecting who get in. Gatekeepers don’t like change. They only want to people that they assume will compliment the community. However, gatekeepers are often too narrow in their focus. Gatekeepers rely on pattern-matching to decide eligibility.

When it comes to innovation, inclusion and diversity works. Most financial advisors will tell you to to diversify assets and investments for a better return.
Gatekeepers need to open up the community to people who may not look like them but have the same habits and goals that the community has.